About Us

Welcome! 

Are you new to BDSM?
So are we! We’ve been in the lifestyle since 2016 and 2019 respectively. Before that, we just thought we were “different” because we didn’t fit the Vanilla mold.

Well, now that we’re here, let’s learn All. The. Things!!

Some people have jumped right into their communities, and some either choose to or, for different reasons, have to stay home. That’s where we come in.  Our podcast aims to bridge the gap between people who live the BDSM lifestyle within their local community and those who must or prefer to kink it at home.

Curious about a topic? Check to see if we’ve covered it. If we haven’t, contact us so we can put it on the list!

Here’s the BIG intro:

TL;DR – We run a BDSM podcast where we learn, talk and play on air. We’re always up for finding, trying, or just learning about a new kink on air, so hit us up! You can find us on Spotify, Stitcher, iTunes, Castbox, Google Podcasts, iHeartRadio, Podbay, Listen Notes, and more. We launched a second podcast (a mini-cast) in March 2020. You can find it at  SpotifyStitcheriTunesCastboxGoogle PodcastsListen Notes, or wherever you enjoy listing to podcasts from as well. And adding to that, we also have a YouTube channel and our own subreddit!

We started podcasting in early January because we realized that our kink life was slowing down as parenting, schoolwork, and Netflix started taking over our lives, and even though we couldn’t get out much, we always managed to find ourselves talking about BDSM and kink in the middle of the night, but not doing much of it. We wanted to reconnect with our passion and not lose sight of something we find incredibly helpful in keeping us united, happy, and youthful.

But the funny thing is, we’re both relatively new to BDSM. As of this post, we have a combined 5-6 years under our belt. So when we create an episode, it’s not us speaking into a mic to tell you something. It’s us discovering things and sharing it all with you. Even trying it on air. When you listen to a Let’s Try It! episode, you’re listening to us trying something for the very first time!! All of our confusion and slip ups are going to be on air. That also means if we get hot and bothered… our sex is going to be on air as well. I usually try to edit it down to just a 1 minute clip, and I typically keep it because it’s part of the scene.

And since we do play on air, we don’t just introduce the episode and get to the good stuff. While we want it to be fun, we want it to be a learning experience as well. So when we play, we pre-negotiate, lab (test out equipment), renegotiate (based on how the lab went), do our scene, then debrief. Beforehand, if it’s a Let’s Try It! or an episode where we’re looking into something unfamiliar, we do our research, then go on Fetlife, Twitter, and Instagram and ask people for their more experienced opinion.

We then read their opinions on air, and with permission, we also post their responses on our Patreon page where it’s FREE to the public.

So, how can you get your voice on air? Contact us: Fetlife, Instagram, Twitter, or leave a message at *67-203-807-KINK. (the *67 keeps your number blocked for privacy).

Enjoy!